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A good read on how to spot a Marriage and the type of potential candidate using Bazi or Chinese Astrology. One can also use this ancient knowledge to spot the likely how a person views marriage.
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Very often men hope to find a good wife while a lady would wanted the same. Traditionally and perhaps till today in most cultures which still practices, man are the head of the family. Thus wife is always to follow husband. There is a saying that “Behind every successful man is a supportive Wife”. It is also reflected in Bazi the art of Chinese Astrology.
Astrology or Bazi is one good tool to help identify what makes up a good or compatible wife based on ancient values. This is why in the olden days before any marriage they either have the elders fix the marriage or a professional match maker to match their couple’s Bazi for compatibility.
But today’s celeb Bazi teachers has a quick way to check it out based on the lady’s bazi on the Day Pillar. This is an easy & quick way to look for the “perfect” wife. It’s called the cheatsheet to Bazi.
The method is very easy, just look for a lady spouse palace for one of these 3 gods which is the Direct Officer, Direct Wealth or a Direct Resource.
To help you understand where is the spouse palace, it is the location under the Day Master or The Day Pillar Earthly Branch. You can view the below example.
Continue reading “Quick Pick Bazi Knowledge on Marriage (For Men)”
If you have less that fortunate marriage life, here are 9 points to help you regain that happy life. It is Possible.
Bazi tell you what problems you will have but you are the solution to your problems. Don’t believe what other tell you about short cuts or how wonderful their feng shui master has done miracle. Life there is no short cut.
1. Avoid the next quarrel. Never lose temper and it is ok to say “I am Sorry”.
2. Don’t expect perfection from your wife/husband. Learn to accept them as they are. Life is imperfect anyway.
3. Be a good listener. Think before you speak. You are the master of unspoken words but slave of spoken words.
4. Be a good forgiver. Most people forgive conditionally, forgiveness should be complete and unconditional.
5. Grow in the spirit of humility. Be humble, ego brings arrogance that separate lives.
6. Learn the art of appreciation. Be quick to appreciate, be slow to criticize. Appreciate while one is alive for after life is for us to let go just like the dust dissappering in the wind.
7. Don’t argue. Learn to win love and affection rather than arguments.
8. Develop a healthy sense of humor. Learn to laugh and be cheerful even if things don’t go your way. So learn to laugh with others and not at others.
9. Always lend a helpful hand. Offer without asking, miracles does happen.
Make this your 2013 resolution if you truly want to improve your marriage life.
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